Who Is Mary Virginia Merrick?
Through my involvement with a diocesan saint project, I became acquainted with Mary Virginia Merrick. This woman, who was born in Washington, D.C. in 1866, is an extraordinary example of what a Christian is capable of despite all odds. Her cause for canonization was opened in 2011. At the age of fourteen Mary Virginia suffered a spinal injury that confined her either to bed or to a reclining wheelchair for the rest of her life. She died in 1955, when she was 88. Instead of wallowing in her misfortune, Mary Virginia refused to speak of it and as a teenager spearheaded a movement that evolved into the Christ Child Society. It began when she inspired her friends to find and need and fill it. They discovered a poor expectant mother who did not have baby clothes, and the girls made a layette for her. (more…)
Presenting the Face of Jesus
No doubt you’ve heard of the 80-year-old woman in Spain who recently turned a valuable fresco of Jesus into an unrecognizable blur. The thought occurred to me that this is a metaphor for what we sometimes do. We attempt to be Jesus for the world–other Christs. Our intentions are good. But then we make a mess of things. The Gospels give us a true picture of Jesus. He was patient, kind, forgiving, wise, loving, and good. Is that what people see when they look at me? Not always! A work of art is the result of a combination of talent and plain hard work. To be a Christian, a genuine likeness of Christ, we who are baptized have the potential. The sanctifying power of the Holy Spirit with all his gifts is at work in our hearts. However, the task still requires effort on our part.
A Sunny Morning Outlook
My mother used to wake up my sister and me by singing, “Oh, I hate to get up in the morning (3x)..it’s so nicer to stay in bed.” Then she would open the venetian blinds. Lately I’ve been echoing these words as day after day Superstorm Sandy brought dreary weather to Cleveland. I once heard we should spring out of bed as though it were on fire. These dark mornings the bed has been more like quicksand, sucking me in. So I’m generating some thoughts to motivate me. First of all, I’m still alive after a night of sleep, called the “little death.” Good! A new day stretches before me. What nice surprises will it hold? (I believe in self-fulfilling prophecy. Thinking positively results in positive events.) Blessed Charles de Foucauld had a wonderful attitude worth imitating. He used to pray, “Lord, one more day to love you!” (more…)
Saints Walk Among Us
Sometimes it’s pointed out that “we stand on the shoulders of giants.” We also rub shoulders with giants and may not even realize it. On the Feast of All Saints we celebrate all people who have made it into heaven, whether they’ve been officially canonized or not. It’s pretty obvious that Mother Teresa and Padre Pio are holy persons. But there are plenty other human beings who are unrecognized saints. They weren’t awarded Nobel prizes for taking in the dying, and they didn’t suffer the stigmata, the bloody wounds of Jesus. In fact, today we live with saints. They may be family members, neighbors, or co-workers who quietly live with love and integrity as Jesus taught. (more…)
How to Be a Gentleman or Gentlewoman
In his book The Idea of a University Blessed John Henry Cardinal Newman defined a gentleman as “one who never inflicts pain.” (Of course, this also holds true for a gentlewoman.) I was going to write about what this means, but in checking to see if I remembered his words correctly, I discovered that this holy man already had unpacked the definition. To paraphrase some of his thoughts: A gentle person prevents others from being embarrassed. He or she avoids upsetting people by clashing with their ideas or causing them to feel restrained, suspected, sad, or resentful. The gentle person tries to put everyone at ease and feel at home. This means approaching others in a way attuned to their personality: being tender to the shy, gentle to the distant, and merciful to the foolish. (more…)
