Stars and Meteors, Praise God!
The Perseid meteor shower peaked on Sunday night before dawn. At 12:30 p.m. our skies were too cloudy to view it. I set my alarm for what I thought was right before dawn. Sadly, when I it went off, it was already dawn. The sky was a soft blue instead of black, and there was a gentle orange glow hemming the horizon all around and two bright stars were still shining. This was a beautiful sight, but I had missed the awesome phenomenon.
Years ago, I had seen the Leonid shower when I lived at Notre Dame College. I stood standing, staring up with my head supported by its brick wall. I counted 86 meteors before tiring and leaving. Another Sister, smarter than me, was viewing the shower from the comfort of a long lawn chair.
My Experience with Stars
I recall how proud I was as a child when I finally mastered drawing a star, you know, the kind with five points. I was also proud whenever I found a star drawn or stuck on to one of my school papers.
Bing Crosby’s song “Swinging on a Star” was in my repertoire, and I was taught this nursery rhyme to say on spotting the first star:
Star light, star bright,
First star I see tonight;
I wish I may, I wish I might
Have the wish I wish tonight.
In the sixth grade, for doing well on a test, I was given a book about constellations, which I treasured.
My most memorable star event occurred when I was riding in a van to Laredo, Texas. During one stretch there were no lights, so it was pitch black. Above us, the sky sparkled with thousands of stars. I could understand how people thought heaven was “up.” And how long ago people worshipped stars as gods. Today, horoscopes are based on the stars, moon, and planets, because people assume they have power to foretell our future.
Stars Twinkling in Scripture
In Genesis, on the fourth day of creation God set lights in the sky, including stars. Psalm 147:4 tells us that God determines the number of stars and gives them their names. The next psalm tells the shining stars to praise God. The three men in the fiery furnace tell the stars of heaven to bless the Lord.
God compares the number of descendants Abraham will have to the number of stars in the sky.
Daniel 12:3 says that those who lead many to righteousness will shine like the stars forever and ever.
During the Easter Vigil, in the reading from Baruch we hear in this delightful description of God: He is the One “before whom the stars at their posts shine and rejoice; when he calls them they answer, ‘Here we are!’ shining with joy for their Maker.”
St. Francis of Assisi in his Canticle of Creation praises God for the stars, which he has has “set shining and lovely in the heavens.”
Of course, the most famous star of all is the one who led the three wise men from the East to Bethlehem. In the Christmas carol we sing,
“O Star of wonder, star of night
Star with royal beauty bright
Westward leading, still proceeding
Guide us to thy Perfect Light.”
Some Scientific Facts
• The stars we see at night are all larger and brighter than our sun (which is a star).
• Our sun is a dwarf star as opposed to a giant or supergiant, which are in the old age stage of star life.
• Stars do not twinkle. It’s Earth’s atmosphere that makes them appear to.
• On a good night you can see a star about 19 quadrillion miles away.
Star Tidbits
“My stars” is an exclamation both Shakespeare and Dickens used.
When our head is hit hard, we see stars, literally. The disconnect between our retina and the occipital lobe of our brain causes flashes of light.
Meteors
I did some research on meteors. Although we call them shooting stars and falling stars, they are not stars. Unlike stars which are balls of burning gasses, meteors are rocks traveling through space. Before they enter Earth’s atmosphere, they are called meteoroids. In the atmosphere they are called meteors, and when they hit the Earth, they are called meteorites.
As meteors go through our atmosphere friction is caused, making the rocks give off the light and tail we see. By the time they reach Earth, not much of the rock is left.
Note: Remember, you are made of stardust! When a star exploded, its atoms of dust and gas formed planets. Because you are made from matter from Earth, elements of life, you are made from stardust.
• Have you ever experienced a meteor shower? If so, what was it like?
Here is a nostalgic piece of music: Julie Andrews singing “When You Wish Upon a Star” from the movie Pinocchio.
Priests: Ordained to Be Other Christs
Chances are, among people who have taken care of your needs are a few priests. Like Jesus, they pray for you, provide the Eucharist, teach and counsel you. This past Sunday I was honored to be present to celebrate the 50th anniversary of one of them, Father Tom Weber. The banquet hall at Brennan’s was filled to capacity with 300 guests, many of them from the ten parishes where he ministered.
Although the day didn’t include the Mass as usual for such an anniversary, the program was organized like one. Everyone received a sheet of paper with the Mass prayers and readings of the current Sunday. The celebration began with this. A man gave a talk about Father Weber. One group at a time, he asked us to stand if we were baptized by Father, married by him, anointed by him, or were the recipient of his long text messages. By the end I think all 300 of us were standing. Fr. Tom had come to Western Reserve Hospice anoint my mom when she was dying.
A first violinist of the Cleveland orchestra, Chul-in Park, had been married by Father Weber and her child baptized by him. She played the Communion hymn “Panis Angelicus” (Bread of Angels) during which you could have heard a pin drop. Then she hurried out to play at a concert at Blossom.
Long lines of people waited to greet Father Weber before and after the affair. He was seated in a wheelchair and clothed with a white alb. In his talk to the group, he pointed out that the day was the Feast of St. John Vianney, patron saint of priests. Then he expressed his gratitude and joy for being alive to celebrate. He recounted the miracles he experienced during his health crises and acknowledged the people who ministered to him. Of course, this was delivered with his typical wit.
He is in the fourth year of self-dialysis, a process that takes 12 hours every night. Last year he had triple bypass heart surgery. A few months later this failed. He needed ten stents in the critical arteries over five months. Although he missed celebrating his 50th anniversary with his class, he was glad to be alive to celebrate this day. As he put it, “Against all odds, I am still here!”
A couple of other talks noted how self-sacrificing Fr. Tom was in tending to people’s needs. One read a passage from the letter to the Ephesians that described this beloved priest. The last to speak was Chuck Kyle, legendary coach of St. Ignatius High School.
Fr. Weber was a proud usher at the Guardian games, and some of his fellow ushers were present at his banquet. This included my brother-in-law Buddy Kovacic, my chauffeur that day. How great it would be if the Guardians were in the World Series this year and Fr. Tom were here to see it! That would be another miracle. One of the speakers showed a baseball card with Fr. Weber’s picture on it.
This experience prompted me to review all the priests who have played a role in the story of my life. In particular, these are the ones who baptized and confirmed me; Fr. Garrity, the handsome young priest who was in charge of our CYO; Monsignor Moriarity, who was a censor/reader for our Christ Our Life series and would always give me a blessing over the phone; Fr. Tom Radloff, SJ, who directed a memorable retreat and took me outside in the rain to practice a phone call I needed to make to a publisher, when our series was in crisis mode; Fr. Tom Fanta, who unflaggingly inspires his parish to minister to the poor.
You might browse through your memory and pinpoint those priests who stand out. And pray for priestly vocations. We sorely need them today, when some priests are pastors over two parishes.
• What priest or priests have made a difference in your life?
In honor of Fr. Tom Weber’s devotion to ballgames, here is a familiar song:
Sister Mary Aloysia, Founder of SNDs
A reader asked for a post about Sister Mary Aloysia, the founder of the Sisters of Notre Dame of Coesfeld, my community. So here is a brief biography.
Sister was born Hilligonde on January 9, 1828, to Catharina and Otto Wolbring. They lived in the Netherlands. A brother died before his first birthday. Then when Hilligonde was four years old, her father died. Her mother remarried but died a year later. A new mother was brought to the house. The stepparents were more interested in Hilligonde’s large inheritance than her upbringing. With them she was pampered and became vain and stubborn.
A priest wrote Hilligonde’s great uncle, Gerhard John Wolbring, about the situation. Gert walked a hundred miles from Germany where Hilligonde’s father was born to fetch her. He took her to his nephew who had six children living at home. At first Hilligonde rebelled. She said, “I don’t have to milk cows. I’m rich.” When other children received favors, she would become angry and scream, “I don’t care. I’ll be married before you because I’m rich.” In time, Hilligonde’s kind aunt, who was used to taking in poor children, improved her. She would take Hilligonde with her to give clothes and food to the poor.
So Hilligonde wouldn’t have to walk far to school, Gert saw that she lived with her teacher and his wife. Later she also attended evening classes. After graduating, she spent two years at home learning homemaking skills.
One day Gert took her to an estate, hoping to find a husband there for her. On the way home, Hilligonde remarked, “The cage is lovely, but the bird will not be lured.” She had dreamed of being a missionary, but In those days, women couldn’t be missionaries. So she decided to be a teacher.
After attending the Teacher Training College in Muenster, Hilligonde’s first job was as an assistant to an almost completely blind woman who taught primary grades at St. Lambert’s School in Coesfeld. This is the parish where the church housed the famous Coesfeld cross, allegedly a gift of Charlemagne to the converted Saxons. It contains a relic of the true cross.
Elisabeth Kühling, who taught older girls, became Hilligonde’s good friend. In those days many people in Germany were poor. Hilligonde brought extra food to share with the children. Then she was inspired to use her money to purchase a home for poor children.
When Elizabeth heard the idea, she asked, “Why don’t you let me help you?” So a house on Süring Street became home for seven children. Then a larger house was needed, so the group moved to a home called Annathal.
In 1849 the parish priest, Father Theodor Elting, proposed that the two women become religious sisters. So three sisters from a congregation with St. Julie Billiart’s spirituality came from Amersfoort in the Netherlands to train them in the religious life. The next year on October 1, Hilligonde became Sister Maria Aloysia, and Elizabeth became Sister Maria Ignatia. Two years later, they made vows.
In 1853, Sister Aloysia was asked to go to the town of Aldekerk. She taught, but Sister Ignatia trained the novices. Sister Ignatia died in 1869 of abdominal cancer.
When Bismarck forbade religious sisters to teach in Germany, Sister Aloysia travelled with eight other sisters to the United States. They arrived on the Fourth of July and saw fireworks. They went to Cleveland, Ohio, and Covington, Kentucky, where they had to adapt to a new language and different food. In Cleveland, Sister Aloysia taught children of German immigrants, cooked for the Sisters, and was a sacristan at St. Peter’s Church.
When there were 200 Sisters of Notre Dame in the United States, Sister Aloysia was asked to go to Delphos to teach and to care for four elderly persons in the convent. She did this until the major superior of the community asked her to care for orphans at Mount St. Mary’s in Cleveland. This is the work she had always dreamed of doing. She was there until she died on May 6, 1889.
Sister Mary Aloysia is buried in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in a common grave with 41 other Sisters. In 2014 a memorial stone was placed on the site of the orphanage, which is on the grounds of the Benedictine Abbey. Sister Mary Aloysia, a quiet, unassuming Sister, would be happy to know the community she began now numbers about 2,000 Sisters and spreads the Good News all over the world.
Note: This week I will be on retreat and away from my computer, so I probably will not have a post the following week. Pray for me please.
• How have the Sisters of Notre Dame figured in your life?
Key to Peace: Deal with Stress
The second greatest commandment according to Jesus is to love others the way you love yourself. This presumes that we love ourselves. Stress takes a toll on our bodies and minds. Coping with it is a way to care for ourselves and promote our health.
This week I present you with a guest blog by Jill Palmer that offers several ways to eliminate the dangerous effects of stress. Interestingly, I’m currently editing a book about Reiki that teaches similar methods. Jill’s original title is “Beat Stress Before It Beats You with These Practical Steps to Regain Peace.” I’m happy to share her essay with you:
Life often feels like a relentless stream of tasks and responsibilities, with stress lurking around every corner. This guide, courtesy of Catholic Faith Corner, is designed to help you navigate these challenges by employing effective strategies that target the root causes of stress, ensure proper rest, and promote mental clarity and physical health. Each step provides practical advice to empower you in managing stress more effectively.
Unveiling Stress Triggers
Identifying what triggers your stress is the first critical step towards managing it. Take time to reflect on recent instances when you felt overwhelmed. Was it a deadline at work, a personal relationship, or financial worries? Recognizing these triggers helps you anticipate and strategize against them before they escalate. This awareness is your first defense in the battle against stress.
Rethinking Work-Life Balance
If you find your current role is the main source of your stress, exploring new career opportunities could significantly enhance your mental wellness. Distance learning options facilitate the acquisition of new skills or qualifications, accommodating your existing work and home responsibilities seamlessly. If you have experience in the healthcare field, advancing through a web-based master’s program in family nurse practitioner enables you to adopt a more active position in patient health management. When you’re ready to get started, this page deserves a look, as it offers a wealth of information on available programs.
Harmonizing Sleep Rhythms
A consistent sleep schedule isn’t just about clocking hours; it’s about quality rest. Transform your bedroom into a sanctuary free from distractions like electronics. Aim to sleep and wake at the same times daily, even on weekends, to regulate your body’s internal clock. This rhythm supports better sleep quality, equipping you with energy and resilience against stress. Proper sleep is foundational to effective stress management.
Energizing Through Exercise
Physical activity is a powerful antidote to stress. It not only enhances your physical health but also boosts your mood by releasing endorphins, known as the body’s feel-good neurotransmitters. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate activity like brisk walking or cycling most days. Regular exercise can dramatically improve your emotional equilibrium. Make movement a non-negotiable part of your day.
Setting Boundaries
Learn to recognize your limits and be comfortable saying no to tasks that exceed them. Declining extra responsibilities isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a strategic decision to ensure your well-being. Setting clear boundaries helps prevent burnout and keeps stress at manageable levels. Remember, every ‘no’ to others can be a ‘yes’ to your health.
Simplifying Tasks
Overwhelm often comes from looking at the big picture. Break your tasks into smaller, more manageable steps. Set realistic goals for each day or week. This approach not only clarifies what is achievable but also provides a clear roadmap to follow, reducing feelings of being overwhelmed and enhancing your focus. Small steps lead to big changes over time.
Mastering Time Management
Effective organization is key to managing daily pressures. Use planners or digital apps to outline your tasks and commitments. By managing your time wisely and figuring out what to focus on, you can reduce stress significantly. Organization isn’t just about order; it’s about freeing your mind from avoidable stress.
Embracing Mindfulness
Mindfulness and meditation can transform your approach to stress. These practices encourage you to stay present and fully engaged in the now, rather than worrying about the past or future. Regular mindfulness exercises can significantly lessen anxiety and improve your overall mental health. Integrate these practices into your daily routine for deeper peace.
As you integrate these strategies into your daily routine, you’ll find that managing stress becomes more intuitive and effective. You’ll discover the strength in setting boundaries, the clarity that comes with organized priorities, and the peace of fostering mindfulness. This journey is about transforming challenges into stepping stones for personal growth and resilience.
Thank you, Jill!
I would add one step: Pray. Offer your troubles to God for the salvation of the world. Ask for the gift of peace. Be quiet and sink into the center of your heart. There Jesus is waiting to calm your life as successfully as he calmed a storm on the Sea of Galilee. Trust in his love for you that will see that everything will work out all right.
• The step that I most need right now is daily exercise. What about you?
Here is a peaceful song about peace:
For your funny bone:
God and Women
My first encounter with gender inequality occurred in the sixth grade. A fellow student and I were running for class president. The class chose Lawrence and explained that it was because a president should be a man.
That was long ago. Conditions haven’t changed too much, although we women now have the right to vote and to wear pants! Forbes reports in 2024 that women earn 16% less than men. Wonder what God thinks? Here is an essay about the topic:
God would certainly support women’s rights. Our God, who is neither male nor female, created women in his own image and likeness. Therefore, they are God’s children who share in God’s divinity. According to Genesis, women are men’s partners and have equal dignity. God, however, apparently favors women!
When God decided to come to earth as a human being, there were many options. God could have appeared as a grown man, a baby washed up on the shore, or the wealthy son of a king. Instead, the Son of God was conceived by a young village girl by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Supposedly as abolitionist Sojourner Truth gave a speech, a man claimed that women did not have as many rights as men because Christ wasn’t a woman. Truth rejoined, “Where did your Christ come from? From God and a woman! Man had nothing to do with him.” The Son of God’s flesh, blood, and DNA came from Mary alone.
Also, during the Angel Gabriel’s visit, the Blessed Virgin Mary, was privileged to be the first to hear the good news that the Messiah was on his way.
Jesus’s Regard for Women
Jesus ignored the mores that prevailed in first-century Israel regarding women. At that time women, along with children, were deemed the property of men. Women were illiterate and not obliged to pray or observe feasts as men did. In the Temple they were confined to the Court of Women. For a man to address a woman in public was unthinkable. Women could not testify in court or ordinarily inherit property. A man could easily divorce his wife for a crime as minor as a badly cooked meal. But the woman was not accorded the same recourse. An unmarried, pregnant woman would be stoned to death, but the man who impregnated her was granted impunity.
The way Jesus treated women was unusual, in fact radical, for a Jewish man.
• He spoke to them in public (even a Samaritan woman of ill-repute),
• He taught them as disciples and included them in his inner circle.
• He freed one from demons and healed them, including the woman with an issue of blood who dared to touch his robe.
• He brought a twelve-year-old girl back to life.
• He told parables about women like the one who lost a coin, a God-figure.
• He counted Mary and Martha of Bethany among his best friends.
• He praised a widow who donated her last two coins in the Temple.
• He saved the life of an adulterous women about to be stoned.
• He defended the repentant woman who washed his feet with her tears.
• Jesus even let a desperate Canaanite woman change his mind, and he cured her Gentile daughter after all.
After Jesus rose from the dead with new, glorious life, in John’s Gospel it was a woman, Mary Magdalene, who first learned of it. Jesus appeared to her and commissioned her to relay the good news of his resurrection to his brothers, earning her the title Apostle to the Apostles. Other Gospels report that two or more women were the first to encounter the risen Lord.
Jesus showed women respect and love, and the women disciples reciprocated with love. They supported Jesus and the apostles financially and no doubt prepared their meals. Most notably women, including his mother, Mary, accompanied Jesus as he carried his cross to the hill of Calvary, while all but one of the male apostles fled for their lives. A woman, the Mother of God, is greater than all the apostles. She is their queen!
Interestingly, as Pope Francis reminded us in 2024, Jesus’s “Church is herself a woman: a daughter, a bride, and a mother. And who better than women can reveal her face?”
• Have you ever felt or observed the injustice of gender inequality?
Here is a short interview that I found interesting …
