Reflections on the Manger in Bethlehem
The first chapter of my new book out this month, Voices: God Speaking in Creation, is “Manger.” It makes a fitting post this week as we celebrate Christmas . . .
“And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth, and laid him in a manger” (Luke 2:7).
Jesus could have been born at home in Nazareth and placed in a wooden crib fashioned by his carpenter-father, Joseph. Instead, because he makes his appearance on Earth while his mother and father are en route, he has no suitable place to lay his head. This circumstance is prophetic, for more than thirty years later, as an itinerant teacher Jesus will claim, “Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests; but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head” (Matthew 8:20).
A manger is a feeding trough for animals. The French word manger means “to eat.” In the stable or cave where Mary and Joseph stay because the inns are filled, the manger serves as a makeshift crib for Mary’s baby, the Redeemer. God’s propensity for foreshadowing comes into play here. Not only is Jesus, who is our Life-Giver, laid in a feeding place, but his birthplace is Bethlehem, a town whose name means “House of Bread.” It is as though God goes out of his way to underline that he is Bread for the world.
Eating is as essential for life as breathing. Daily we refuel ourselves with food. Omitting meals for any length of time leaves us weak and malfunctioning. No wonder we pray in the Our Father, “Give us this day our daily bread.” We look to God for life. When Jesus spends his first hours in a manger, he indicates that he is our bread, our sustenance. Without him, we can’t survive. Interestingly, D.T. Niles in That They May Have Life defines evangelization, bringing others to know Jesus, as “one beggar telling another where to find bread.”
As Jesus’ journey on Earth began with wood, so did it end—not with the warm, welcoming wood of the manger, but the rough wood of the cross. This wood too is associated with bread. The body of Jesus nailed to the cross made efficacious his words of the preceding evening when he held bread in his hands and declared, “This is my body.” The cross is the wood through which he became our source of eternal life.
As a good parent, God has always provided bread for his children. In Old Testament times when the world faced a famine, God raised up the patriarch Joseph to store enough Egyptian grain to feed the chosen people and other nations. Centuries later, as the Israelites trekked through the desert on the way to the Promised Land, again they faced starvation. Yahweh had compassion on them. Daily during their forty-year sojourn to Canaan he rained down bread from heaven called manna.
Then in New Testament times, when Jesus held the crowd’s rapt attention for hours and they grew hungry, he was aware of their need and had compassion. He astounded them by multiplying bread in abundance. The Gospels give us no fewer than six accounts of the picnic of bread and fish Jesus provided. And Jesus continues to feed the hungry through his Church. After he ascended into heaven, one of the first decisions his followers made was to appoint seven deacons to oversee the distribution of food. Today Christians serve meals at soup kitchens and bring them to the homebound, work at hunger centers, and donate food for people in need.
In this century, Jesus continues to nourish people with bread. Whenever we share in the Eucharist, we are fortified and energized for our particular journey on Earth. As really as Jesus slept in the manger on Christmas night, as really as he hung on the cross on Good Friday, Jesus, now risen, comes into us when we partake of this sacrament. As food and drink he unites himself with us, and we become like him. But becoming like him means becoming bread for others.
To be bread for others is to have compassion on them in their hungers. When someone hungers for attention, we are there to listen. When someone hungers for affirmation, we are there to encourage and support. When someone hungers for understanding and sympathy, we are there to give solace. When someone hungers for justice, we are there to set things right. In the words of Caryll Houselander, “The ultimate miracle of Divine Love is this, that the life of the risen Christ is given us to give to one another, through the daily bread of our human love.”
Fed at the Eucharistic feast, we find our desire to be bread is intensified. We long to bring life to others. That is why St. Teresa of Calcutta could instruct her novices, “Let the people eat you up.” That is why, in anticipation of being thrown to wild animals in the arena, St. Ignatius of Antioch, who loved the Eucharist, could say of himself: “I am the wheat of Christ. May I be ground by the teeth of beasts to become the immaculate bread of Christ.” It is only in the Eucharist that we acquire the power, the wisdom, the courage, and the love to satisfy the hunger of the people around us and in distant lands.
The manger brings to mind hospitality, for it receives the child when the inns are closed to him. The child grows up to become the greatest and most gracious host the world has known. Jesus is a hospitable person from the beginning to the end of his public life. At the outset of his ministry, two of John’s disciples spend the afternoon at his house. After the resurrection, he cooks fish on the shore and serves breakfast to the apostles who have been fishing all night. Jesus also enjoys the hospitality of others, frequently visiting Lazarus and his sisters, Martha and Mary. During his ministry in Capernaum, he makes Peter’s house his home. One day he even invites himself to the house of Zacchaeus for dinner! Jesus socializes with Pharisees, tax collectors, and sinners; and he chides the Pharisee Simon for failing to perform the courtesies due to a guest.
Jesus befriends the outsiders. His doors are open to everyone: the poor, the lonely, foreigners, lepers, and all those whom society ignores and scorns. He makes them feel welcomed and relaxed and restores their dignity by his love and care. Jesus requires a like hospitality in us, his followers, revealing that we will be judged on the way we receive the hungry, the thirsty, the naked, the stranger, the sick, and the imprisoned. Jesus was all of these when he came into the world at Bethlehem, and he was all of them when he left it. He is all of them today.
As a newborn babe, Jesus was hungry, thirsty, naked, and weak from the ordeal of being born. He was a stranger in the town of Bethlehem. His divinity was imprisoned in flesh. On Calvary, as a condemned man nailed to a cross, Jesus was hungry and thirsty from the loss of blood, and he was naked. He was so weak from the nightlong torture of interrogations, whippings, and thorns piercing his head that he fell carrying the cross and required Simon of Cyrene’s help. In Jerusalem he was a stranger, an outcast, and a prisoner. Today Jesus suffers in his brothers and sisters.
A Spanish story tells of a priest searching in antique shops for a large replica of the crucified Christ. He comes across a Christ-figure removed from the cross and broken. Half of one leg is gone, an arm is missing, and the face is no longer discernible. Yet, the priest is strangely attracted to and moved by the figure, and so he purchases it.
That night he speaks to his broken Christ, asking, “Who did this to you? Is he still alive?”
Jesus answers, “Quiet! Forget the one who did this to me. I have already pardoned him. What is the greater sin—to mutilate an image of wood or to mutilate my image in the flesh? You grieve over a broken wooden image while stretching forth your hand to harm the living Christs who are your brothers and sisters.”
When the priest suggests having the disfigured Christ restored, the Lord replies, “No. When you see me broken, you will think of the many people oppressed, tortured, and broken. They are without arms because they have no possibility of work, without feet because so many paths are closed to them, without a face because their honor has been taken from them. Many Christians who show devotion to a beautiful Christ forget him in their suffering fellow men and women.”
The story teaches that when we welcome poor and marginalized people, we welcome Jesus. St. Pope John Paul II enlightened us as to how to act toward them: “You must never be content to leave them just the crumbs from the feast. You must take of your substance and not just of your abundance in order to help them. And you must treat them like guests at your family table.”
The way we treat guests is the way we should always treat one another. How do we treat guests? We do not take them for granted. We are anxious that they feel at home with us. We are solicitous for their needs and willing to go all out for them. We accept them as they are and overlook their faults. We are polite, listen to them attentively, and laugh at their jokes, including those we’ve heard before. We put our best foot forward. Just as Christ refuses no one who comes to him, we Christians are to be universal in our hospitality. Then someday we will hear him say to us: “Welcome to my Father’s house. I have prepared a room for you.”
Most obviously, the manger symbolizes poverty. God certainly could have planned a more plush setting for his entrance into the world. Somehow, though, the stable with its smells, crude crib, earthiness, and simplicity is exactly right. Jesus identifies with the poor and lowly. His mission is to bring the good news to the poor (Luke 4:18). Even now he is more often found in huts than in mansions. He more freely mingles with those who have small incomes and large, generous hearts than with those whose millions are poured into glorifying themselves. In the end, wealth is worthless unless we give it away. Besides, only then will we have room in our house for the King of the Poor.
The manger also teaches us to be open to new roles in life. For years before the coming of Jesus, some tree had silently grown and yielded the wood that a craftsman shaped into a feeding trough. But then it is called to a new and sublime state. Mary or Joseph exercise creativity, and the manger is converted into a crib for the Son of God. The baby it holds is also the result of a transformation:
Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not regard equality with God as something to be exploited, but emptied himself, taking the form of a slave, being born in human likeness. Philippians 2:5–7
How willing are we to slough off our old, comfortable selves and allow God to change us and use us for new tasks? Resisting God’s efforts to recreate us may mean missing the opportunity of a lifetime. Trusting enough in God’s goodness and love to give him a free hand with our lives can lead to marvelous, unexpected things.
When Mary’s angelic visitor proposed to overturn her marriage plans and she responded, “Yes,” a world was saved. We might never have heard of St. Teresa of Calcutta if she hadn’t left her original religious community and struck out on her own. St. Ignatius of Loyola, who was trained to be a soldier, turned away from the military life and became a leader in the spiritual life and the founder of the Jesuits.
When the Holy Family departed from the stable, the manger became a common trough again. It was needed to feed the animals. But thanks to St. Francis, who initiated the custom of setting up the crêche for Christmas, the shining moment of the manger is remembered each year.
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
For Reflection and Discussion
- The infant Jesus is laid in a manger in Bethlehem, which foreshadows that he is bread for the world. What event has occurred in your life that some people might call a coincidence but is actually God carrying out a plan for you?
2. God provides our food. What is your favorite meal? How do you thank God for your food?
- How have you been “bread for others”? How could you be?
- When have you undertaken a new role in life? What was the result?
Symbolism in Christmas Customs
As I researched Christmas customs recently, I discovered the meaning behind some of them that many people, even Christians, are probably not aware of. I found the symbolism interesting. Maybe you will too.
Christmas The name for this feast comes from “Christ Mass” because Mass was celebrated in honor of the birth of Christ. The short form of Christmas, Xmas, comes from the Greek word for Christ, which is also the origin of the chi-rho symbol used for Christ in Christian art.
December 25 This date was chosen for the celebration of Jesus’ birth because it was the day the Romans celebrated the feast of the invincible Sun and the Persians celebrated the birth of their god Mithras.
Christmas tree The evergreen tree stands for eternal life, for evergreens stay green all year. This tree is triangular, reminding us of the Trinity, and it points heavenward. Originally Christmas trees were decorated with apples for the apple that Adam and Eve shared from the tree in Paradise. A Christmas tree can also be viewed as a symbol of the death and resurrection of Jesus: The tree is cut down, but then arises in splendor.
Poinsettia The flower of a poinsettia (which is actually colored leaves) looks like a star. In fact, this flower is also called Christmas Star. A poinsettia represents the Star of Bethlehem as well as Jesus, who is the morning day star. Bright red poinsettias symbolize that the baby boy born in Bethlehem will save us by his blood. White poinsettias stand for his purity.
Christmas wreaths appear hung on doors and in windows. The wreath is a circle that has no beginning or end like the eternal God and his everlasting love for us. A wreath made of evergreen is a sign of eternal life. In the center of the wreath is empty space—what our lives would be like without Jesus. The wreath is a sign of welcome, and Jesus always invites us to come to him.
Holly is used to make wreaths and other decorations. It has spiny leaves and red berries as a reminder of the suffering Jesus endured for us.
Christmas candles obviously stand for Jesus, the Light of the World.
Christmas lights too are for the Light that has come into the world.
Gifts We exchange gifts at Christmas in honor of Jesus, who is God’s best Gift to us and because the wise men presented gifts to the infant.
Stars and angels These have a role in the Christmas story as told in the Gospels.
Candy canes This hard candy is like Jesus, our rock. The peppermint flavor reminds us of the wise men’s gift of spices. Their stripes remind us of the lashes Jesus received. The red color is like the blood Jesus shed, while the white stands for his purity. Candy canes are shaped like a staff and when turned upside down are the letter “J,” both symbols of Jesus.
Christmas stockings Hanging Christmas stockings may be related to a legend about the bishop St. Nicholas. When three girls in a village had no money for a dowry, one night St. Nicholas tossed three bags of gold coins through the window of their house. One bag landed in a stocking hung by the fireplace to dry. In another version of this story the bags ended up in shoes, which gave rise to the custom of putting out their shoes for the feast of St. Nicholas, in hopes of having them filled with goodies.
Mince Pie The fruit and spices in a mince pie are like the exotic gifts the wise men brought to Jesus.
What were your Christmas customs growing up? What customs does your family have now?
BOOK REVIEW: God I
s Not Fair and Other Reasons for Gratitude
Daniel P. Horan, OFM, Franciscan Media, 133 pp., $15.99
The title of this book, “God Is Not Fair,” is the title of one of its forty-eight chapters or essays. These usually run only two pages and comprise a smorgasbord of reflections on relevant topics. They include clericalism, racism, the death penalty, care for creation, equality in the Church, and mercy. Horan states in his introduction that his reflections are founded on “a belief that we must consider our faith at the intersection of theology, Scripture and culture” and be willing to “to see with new eyes, think with open minds, and care with loving hearts.”
Horan divides his reflections into three parts. In the first part he discusses the Church in the modern world. The second part is composed of his thoughts on selected Gospel passages and resembles a collection of homilies. In the third part he focuses on everyone’s vocation—the call to discipleship.
The essays challenge us to examine our lives in the light of Gospel teaching. Repeatedly Horan exhorts us to walk in the footprints of Jesus. An appealing feature of the book is that it is laced with references to Pope Francis, St. Francis, and the Franciscan way of life.
The themes and thoughts in this book are rooted in Horan’s experiences of writing articles for America magazine, Give Us This Day, and in honor of the Year of Consecrated Life. Although comparatively young, age thirty-two, Horan has a wealth of wisdom to share.
Advent: Jesus Coming in Mystery Now, Today!
Advent readings at Mass focus us on the coming of Jesus in Majesty at the end of time, while Christmas decorations recall his coming in History in Bethlehem, but his third coming that we commemorate during Advent is his coming in Mystery. This coming gets pushed aside. Let’s think about it, for it is the coming that most personally impacts us. Jesus comes to us mysteriously through the kindness of strangers. On Thanksgiving a newspaper appeared on lawns all down my street, but I didn’t get one. I even went out and checked behind the large maple on my tree lawn. I called the publisher and a recording informed me that I hadn’t ordered this special edition. Later, when I went out to Mass, there was a newspaper propped against my back door. When I returned from Mass, there was another paper at my front door. I can only guess that neighbors saw me looking for paper and generously gave me theirs. This thought made me feel warm and cozy all day long. That afternoon I prepared and shared a Thanksgiving meal with a woman down the street who I knew would be alone that day. So Jesus came to her through me. Now isn’t this the point of Tolstoy’s story “Martin the Cobbler”?
If you remember, Jesus told Martin he would come to him that day. All day Martin waited. People came to him for help, and he helped them. But Jesus did not appear. At the end of the day, Jesus explained to Martin that he had come to him…in the guise of all those people he had helped. Jesus com
es to us as the needy people we provide Christmas gifts for via the Giving Trees in our parishes, as the hungry people we serve meals to at hunger centers, and as the people we help as we respond to some of the many requests coming in the mail or over the phone for donations. Jesus also comes to us in the members of our family whom we serve with love, tending to their needs and giving them joy.
Jesus also surprises us with gifts today and every day. We are reunited with an old friend in an unlikely place. We’re searching for something to give to a person for Christmas and it appears in an ad…and for sale! We want to know where a Scripture quotation is, and the Bible falls open to the exact page where it is located. Events like these are God’s finger acting in our lives for those who have eyes to see.
Sometimes Jesus comes to us when we least expect it. We might be driving, reading a book, listening to music, vacuuming, or quietly sitting and suddenly we are overtaken by a sense of God’s presence and love for us.
No doubt, the most impressive way that Jesus comes to us in mystery now in this “in between time” is in the Eucharist. At Christmas we celebrate that God took on flesh and became a human being. That is incredible enough. But every day at Mass he stoops to take on the forms of inanimate things: bread and wine. This truly is a mystery. Yes, God so loved the world that he sent his only Son. God also so loved the world that he becomes food and drink and shares his very life with us.
How has Jesus come to you recently? Did you recognize him?
BOOK REVIEW “Reading in Bed” Brief headlong essays about books & writers & reading & readers
Brian Doyle
This book is a must for all book lovers and a delight for anyone to read. Brian Doyle, a prolific author of books for adults and children as well as an editor, presents a potpourri of topics related to books. Besides discussing reading in bed (and surreptitiously reading the book your bed partner is reading), he also covers observing books on other people’s bookshelves, books people have in cars, the physical properties of books, writing rejection letters as an editor, and the refrigerator as a large, humming book. He refers to his writing appropriately as “nutty, inky adventures.” His whimsical style is characterized by sentences that run on and on but are understandable, striking vocabulary, and thoughts that take you by surprise.
As you read, you can hear Doyle speaking to you personally with a grin on his face. The book is highly entertaining while being informative. For me, the most valuable feature are the books and authors Doyle mentions that will serve as a guide for me in my next trip to the library.
Sadly, Doyle had surgery for a brain tumor the day before Thanksgiving. He and his family are in great need of prayers. A friend has put up a fundraising site for them.http://www.gofundme.com/betenderandlaugh
I Thank Means I Think
For a graduate school course I wrote a paper on “thank you.” To my surprise the word “thank” is derived from the word “think.” To thank someone means we are thinking of them and their kind act for us. When a person has done something thoughtful for us, the least we can do is to “think of” or “thank” them in return…especially if we are no position to return the favor. Nowadays we often thank our benefactors via an email or a phone call. A more convincing way to express our gratitude is to write a thank-you note. This entails finding a card and pen, putting a stamp on the envelope, and maybe making a trip to the post office.
Flaws: Saints Weren’t Perfect Either
We’ve just finished a presidential campaign which was discouraging to many because both candidates were flawed. This prompted me to resurrect excerpts from an article I wrote decades ago:
“Nobody is perfect.” How glibly we say that, but some of us have difficulty realizing that “nobody” includes us. Most of us, however, wake every morning to find we are our same weak, sinful selves. Seen in the proper perspective, having faults is not so horrible. In fact, just as St. Augustine referred to original sin as a “happy fault,” we can view our weaknesses as special graces. In nature, imperfection can have a certain charm. Dimples are weak muscles. Four-leaf clovers are biological mistakes. Pearls used to be grit trapped in an oyster. Yet these three things are treasures.
Imperfections make life interesting. How dull conversations would be if we never had occasion to laugh at ourselves. If we made a basket every time we shot for it, who would play? Perfection leaves nothing to strive for; it removes challenge from life and deprives us of a hard-fought victory.
We all have bad points. The person with the lovely voice has illegible handwriting. The intellectual is encouraged to stay out of the kitchen. The witty person may also be a braggart. One beauty of the Mystical Body is that when we are united, we compensate for one another. Our very faults may make us lovely. In a movie, Mr. or Ms. Perfect invites jeers, while we sympathize with Charlie Brown and Ziggy. With faults, we are more approachable. Just as we find comfort in a mug with a flaw or an old chair with lumps and squeaks, people feel secure with us. Also, it is our faults and struggles that make us excellent empathizers for people who have similar problems.
Jesus lived in the company of bungling humans. He prefers the lowly, those who recognize their poverty and powerlessness. Just as a doctor comes for the sick, Christ ministered to sinners: the adulterous woman, the good thief, and us. He spoke of seeking out stray sheep, the lost coin, and the prodigal son. When we are at our worst, Jesus pays the most attention to us, drawing us to experience forgiving love. When God forgives our sins, our guilt is wiped away. Clinging to fear and shame means we do not trust God’s mercy enough. St. Therese of Lisieux remarked, “How happy I am to find myself imperfect and so much in need of the good Gods mercy at my time of death.”
With Paul we can say, “I do not do what I want to do but what I hate.” When we ask Why in the world did I do such a thing? What’s wrong with me? we cringe.
God’s power is more clearly at work when we are weak. “It is when I am weak,” Paul says, “that I am strong” (2 Cor. 12:10). The poorer we are in skills, talents, and charisma, the more dependent we are on God to fill us with grace. If we can mange only 10%, that leaves 90% for God to do. That way our accomplishments are not be so much to our credit as to God’s glory. He often uses the weak to confound the strong. There was the carpenter’s son from the hick town of Nazareth, the “dumb ox” who wrote the “Summa Theologica” and the tiny old Sister who worked with the poor in India.
Our culture gears us to act in competition, but with maturity, perfection comes to be seen not as a matter of firsts, mosts, and bests at all, but a matter of love. And love is emptiness, openness, and honesty.
When we love ourselves with our limitations, we are more apt to love others along with theirs. We tend to think the worst of ourselves. When people compliment us, we think they are just practicing charity or they don’t really know what wretched creature we are. When someone criticizes us, we tend to swallow their comments wholesale. But a poor self-concept paralyzes us and deters us from doing good. The way we perceive ourselves is the way we act.
Self-knowledge is a realistic picture of ourselves. It is as God sees us: with no features, good or bad magnified. With grace we an accept the unique image of God that we are—we can cope with our faults and capitalize on our strengths. We thank God for our good points that make us more like him and for our bad points that God somehow uses to build his kingdom in us and in the world. We are all saints in the making. In the end we will be judged not on our conquests, but on our struggles.
What saint do you know of who had “a tilted halo”?
BOOK REVIEW: C
aring for Creation: Inspiring Words from Pope Francis (Edited by Alicia von Stamwitz, published by Franciscan Media, 181 pp., $22.99.)
Today’s paper reported that 300 animals are being eaten into extinction, air pollution is a contributing factor in the death of about 600,00 children per year, and carbon dioxide in the atmosphere has spiked even as far away as Antarctica. The number of men, women, and children killed in Mideast wars and as they flee their countries is staggering. In the face of this senseless destruction, Pope Francis has made the care for creation a top priority. Repeatedly he has reminded humankind about our responsibility for the gift of creation in homilies, speeches and most extensively and powerfully in his encyclical “Laudato Si” (Praise Be to You).
“Caring for Creation” is a compilation of the highlights of the Holy Father’s messages exhorting us to curb our self-centeredness and greed for the sake of the poor and future generations. In the carefully chosen selections, Pope Francis exhorts us to care for and share our beautiful planet and its resources.
That fact that the book contains many important passages from “Laudato Si” is a boon for those who find reading the entire document quite daunting. Interspersed with these passages are quotations from homilies and speeches concerning what the pope does not shrink from calling our “environmental crisis.” An interesting feature of the book are the pope’s tweets like the following: “When the world slumbers in comfort and selfishness, our Christian mission is to help it rouse from sleep” and “The earth, our home, is beginning to look more and more like an immense pile of filth.”
Like a prophet, Pope Francis opens our eyes to truth and calls us to conversion. He urges us to change our culture of consumption and waste and our thirst for possessions and profit. He points out that we are to provide the rights of land, lodging and labor for all. He makes us realize that as we destroy the environment we are also destroying the human race. Reading this book spurs one on to join the revolution to restore our planet home and protect all its inhabitants.
